It's up to you honey, go, don't go, have fun, or don't. I can't be married to 4 girls, maybe 5, with the occasional visits, and tell you not to go. And despite some things we don't agree on, he's not really that much of an asshole, so if you two end up... you know.... I won't hold it against you, but at least let me know you're going to before you do, don't let me find out after something happens... Alright? But some time at his resort, will certainly force you into exposure and public displays... And you won't exactly be able to hide yourself either.... So really, only go if you're willing to push yourself, because you certainly will be pushed... From the second you get there, even if nothing is happening, you're going to be naked.